“It’s our paradise and it’s our war zone” -Pillowtalk
I enjoy getting my jollies off as much as the next person, but there’s nothing worse than ending up with a partner that really doesn’t know how to please a women…spoiler it’s not hard when you know about the clit, although I am one of the lucky few females that can orgasm through penetration alone. If you’re not like me then there are certain positions that you’ll want to try that’ll allow clitoral stimulation at the same time, and allow you to control the speed and intensity. Or if you want to be adventurous you can always include a vibrator, or if you’re feeling really adventurous you could use a butt plug…or go wild and have both. You do you girl.
Now some of these positions are going to take some practice before you master them (one of them I’m still not completely comfortable doing), but it’ll be worth it when your eyes are rolling into the back of your head. Just remember the communication is important with your partner, if they’re doing something that you’re not enjoying then just tell them, or if there is something you want to try then just let them know.
These positions are not done in any particular order.
girl on top
This position is fabulous for hitting all those sweet spots and allows you to take completely control over your pleasure. It can be difficult to get a good rhythm when you first give this a go but trust me it’s worth it. Many guys also seem to love this position as they get to watch you in all your glory enjoying yourself, if you’re feeling self-conscious about your entire body being in view then you can always leave your bra on or keep your clothes on…nobody says you have to have sex naked. Use it as an excuse to show off your newest set of cute lingerie, if you want recommendations to buy cute lingerie for bigger busts then check out my ‘Let’s talk about big boobs‘ post.
In this position, your hands are free to roam across your partner’s body and take in the beauty of their sex face or their admiration of you. You can also have your back to your partner so they get the glorious view of your behind and you don’t have to worry about awkward eye contact or bursting out laughing at each other (I’m so guilty at laughing during sex for no reason).
Let’s not forget we all have days where we want to have sex but we’ve had a busy day and we are bloody tired and can’t be asked to bring our A game…missionary can be a life saver in times like those. You can lay there enjoying yourself while your partner does all the work.
What’s your favourite position you’ve tried, or are there any that you’re dying to try out with a partner?
Love you lots like jelly tots x
All photos within this post were taken by myself on a Fujifilm Finepix S4240 in natural lighting and edited on VSCO
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